Originally written in November 2014 as 'End of Home Schooling 2014'— Updated for clarity and reflection in 2026.
This is our final week of home schooling for the year.
People always ask the same thing.
What about December, Martyn? Why stop now?
The answer is simple.
I follow a school calendar. By this point in the year most children in mainstream schools slow down. December becomes a mix of Christmas songs, rehearsals for the school play, wall displays, letters to Santa, and every craft activity under the sun.
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| [Image 2. A school display board featuring 6 Christmas themed painting od trees and snowmen.] |
So why should home schooling be any different?
It is easy, when you home educate, to forget how a schools routine and much time schools spend on seasonal activities. You get into a rhythm. Week after week becomes a pattern of lessons, worksheets, resources, and structure. December breaks that pattern in the best way.
Our home schooling style has always been semi‑structured. We do our focused “sit‑down” learning on Mondays and Tuesdays. We follow the government curriculum, and the quality of William’s work shows how well this approach suits him.
We are not stopping learning altogether. We are shifting it.
This term in literacy we covered reading, lists, labels, alphabetical order, rhyming, poems, adjectives, smaller literacy activities, and storytelling through writing. When you see it written out like that it looks like a lot. It is a lot.
December gives us space to layer that learning with Christmas activities.
We will:
- Make a list for Santa
- Writing Christmas Letters and cards
- Create labels for presents
- Write a Christmas poem
- Build a Christmas story using rhyme, order, and adjectives
It reinforces everything he has learned. It keeps the skills alive without the pressure of formal lessons. Schools rarely get the chance to revisit topics like this. Home schooling gives us that freedom and advantage.
So for the next three weeks everything will be completely Christmas‑themed. I am looking forward to it. I have no idea how it will turn out, which is half the fun.
If you want to see the rest of our 2014 home schooling journey, you can find the full set of posts here:
2026 Reflection
This was a version of me who was starting to get into the day‑to‑day of home schooling stride, after building structure from scratch, and trying to make learning joyful for a little boy who needed something different from mainstream education. I hadn’t quite mastered the act of unschooling but this post shows the beginning of that aspect.
It is strange to think how much life has changed since then. William is older now, left home school in 2021, and started attending a specialist autistic school in 2022. My work in accessibility, faith, disability, community looks nothing like it did in 2014. Yet the heart of this post still feels familiar. I can see the early threads of the home educator I eventually became. I also appreciate how far I had come from the years before, like my first Christmas as a single parent, the following nervous breakdown, climbing back up, and adjusting to being a single dad.
If you are reading this as part of the revamped archive, you might want to jump forward to posts where home schooling evolved and spanned eight years into wider reflections on parenting, recipes, health and disability, and resilience.
This post reminds me that even the small decisions we made in 2014 were laying foundations for the life we have now.


This sounds very interesting Martyn, I'm enjoying watching your journey as a parent and teacher home schooling. Certainly sounds like you have everything covered and the one to one time must be so beneficial for your little one. Home-schooling isn't something I know a lot about but I have American friends who tell me its very popular over there. Maybe it will become more popular over here.
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DeleteThank you, it isn't always easy to get the balance right but it is always still worth blogging about it. (even if it gives me something to look back and laugh at)
I know out in America it is quite popular. But I was quite surprised how many people do it over here in the UK. there are a hundreds of home schooled children just in our little borough as well as then a lot of groups in Kent (5 groups that I am aware of) Saying that, apart from the group we attend, I don't really hear anyone talking about it.
There will be a few more posts this week on it. One on why I home school and another on the advantages and disadvantages of it. Realised at the weekend that I am blogging our journey but haven't really explored or blogged about Home Schooling so keep a look out. Even if it just gives you a heads up. :-)
How lovely. I will be following with interest to see what you get up to, I haven't ruled out home schooling myself.
ReplyDeleteThanks for commenting. Home schooling is amazing. As I said to the previous comment that I have blogged about our journey but never about home schooling itself so will be doing some posts about that itself, hopefully this week.
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