Recently I have been caught up in what seems an on-going
debate. It comes from different angles each time but it has the same
conclusion; where we, as society, are politically and how I am wrong.
I am no expert on politics. Of all of the courses that I have
studied or trained in, politics isn’t one of them. So I understand that
sometimes I may be a tad ill-informed and not as knowledgeable as I may be
compared to topics like child development or education. This being said I do
try to keep up with political parties and big issues both home and abroad; for
example, I would acknowledge that I had a fair understanding of the Clinton Vs
Trump race but would never consider myself a poignant choice as a question time
speaker!
One thing I love about politics is that everyone has an
opinion on it. There isn’t one set, bog standard and accepting political view
point that we all willingly follow with a joyful heart; a utopian world we are
not.
Yet, obviously, from that you will get disagreement and at a
further stance passion where people’s lives are invested in changes.
Disagreement and passion combined just leaves a lot of situations rather heated
and this is where I circle back to my first point; I seem to be caught up in
such a regular debate.
Everyone has their view point and I respect that and the
people who have a different view point to my own. The one thing I have very
little respect for is a personal attack because my view is different.
I am going to be really transparent here and admit that I am
a bit of a lefty when it comes to my political leaning.
I, in my leftorium bubble, have missed the instances both at
home and abroad where people on “my side” have been belittling, mocking and overly
controlling the people on the right.
What seems apparent is that from the missed outcry the
political pendulum swing has moved from left all the way over to the right and
with that there seems a “sweeping right movement” across the western world.
We first saw it with Brexit and now with President elect
Trump. The Right has clearly spoken and wants to be heard and to be honest I am
“OK” with that. Both weren’t my choosing but we live in a democracy and the
people have spoken and I happily acknowledge this.
Yet, this right movement still has a lot of momentum and it,
following off the back of the above decisions, seems that we might see Wilders
become Prime Minister in the Netherlands and Le Pen President of France; both
points worry me deeply.
But, as previously stated, the right has spoken and clearly
there does need to be a change.
Despite my acceptance of this I still seem to be getting
attacked.
The fact that I call myself a feminist and
believe that the increased gap in gender pay needs to change
shouldn’t mean that I get laughed at or suggested that it is a myth and I am
stupid for believing it. The same can be applied when I say I support animal
rights, LGBT, multiculturalism and am against the privatisation of the NHS or
when I say I read the Huffpost or Guardian.
Just because I have a difference of opinion doesn’t mean I
appreciate being called a Commie, Champagne Socialists, Hippy, Cuck or a SJW;
even if you’re trying to be funny or hyperbolic.
I can just about take it but why is it appropriate to call
me things like cripple and spastic and get angry when I am disapproving, disagreeing
and disgusted by derogatory comments all in the name of freedom of speech! (And,
because us “lefties” are apparently great at name calling)
The tables have turned and the world is changing and moving
in a place where free speech means that it is acceptable to insult people. I don’t think restricting speech is EVER the
answer but equally personal responsibility is something that I believe in. Over
the last year I have seen instances where William has had to stand up for me
when people have insulted me in front of him. I might miss the point here but I
grew up being told that if you have nothing nice to say then you say nothing at
all NOT because I have the right to say it therefore I should have verbal
diarrhoea and hide behind freedom of speech.
No more.
This is not a world I want my boys to grow up in. I don’t want
them to be in a world where they have to defend their dad from discriminative
insults and all because people have the right to do it.
I get that democracy has won and the people are now being
heard but don’t make this an excuse for violence, discrimination, antireligious
acts and to belittle anyone because they have a different view point from you. We
should be setting an example to the future generations on how we want positive change
not one that just breeds more negativity and hostility.
I, in the meantime, will still be the uncool kid and be proud to be left and teach my children about equality for all.
1 comment:
Being the uncool kid is absolutely the best position to be in. Embrace the position and the individuality that comes with it, and it unlocks a level of resilience that most popular folk will never gain access to. Being one of the 'in crowd' comes at personal cost.
As for discrimination, I honestly believe that given a choice, most people would listen to reasonable arguments from both sides. Unfortunately we live in a period dominated by the rule of divide and conquer where only the extremes are represented, and moderation doesn't win.
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