I have read many articles and blog posts regarding this
topic and as both a trained teacher and a parent I could happily argue the pros
and cons to each side.
The above debate is such an important one but I think both
sides can be true; young people do live in two worlds, both Home and School,
but they also learn in them too. We, as Parents, don’t instantly stop teaching
them lessons about life and its surroundings the moment they start school.
The way the two connect and communicate can make a massive
difference to how they learn to manage and process in both places.
When my eldest had difficulties at school, with both
engaging in work and social aspects, his Mum and I realised that we needed to
do something to help him out. We decided that Home Education was the best way forward;
the decision to home educate, however, is a personal choice but it has opened
my eyes to certain aspects of education as a Parent and as a Teacher.
The biggest realisation being the importance of engaging in
your child’s learning.
As a parent, one of the biggest jobs is to support your
children’s education and make sure it’s the best it can be. It is, I believe,
important, more than ever, to help them achieve their potential; your
involvement in your child’s learning will make an impact.
So how can we engage and support them?
Reading
One of the biggest ways you can engage and support them is
to read with them; read out loud with your child and listen to them reading any
book they have brought home. Most children love bedtime stories but it also
doesn’t have to just be books; allow their personal interests to come through
too: Comics, Magazines or even just signs and objects. Make reading an everyday
activity not a ‘boring school chore’ and the engagement to read ‘Schooled’
books will come too.
Praise and Positive reinforcement
We are, as a species, incredibly vain! We all seek praise
for something we have done and children are the same; I am sure we all praise
our children when they have brought home their latest award or when they tell
you they have won the Star Chart. There are other ways though: if they have
done especially well with formulated writing, for example, then present it
somewhere that everyone can see. Post work or awards on the wall or
refrigerator, or send it to family members and friends; when focusing praise on
particular aspects it can be more effective than general praise.
Talk about what they are learning
It is important to maintain your focus on their schoolwork,
keep an eye on what the class topics for the term are. If they’re learning it
at school it gives you an understanding of what they’re doing and from that you
can plan days out, do a self-planned family project; all of which builds upon
your child’s school understanding and will make them engage more at school.
Teachers are humans too
Teachers are not scary and they want the same for your child
as you do; to help every child, individually, to enjoy and learn. Having a good
relationship with your child’s teacher can create an important link between
home and school. Learn about some of the different ways to help out with
lessons or homework or, if necessary, to simply share your views and concerns.
P.T.A
Another option for becoming more involved in your child’s
education is to join the school’s P.T.A (Parent Teacher Association) This will
give you a better understanding of how the school works and gives you the
chance to get to know other parents and teachers. Your involvement and
participation in events and activities will show your child that you care about
their school life.
A Calm Environment
We know the stress of coming home from work after a long day
and the moment that we get in we’re hit with 101 questions or activities to do.
If you are like me there are moments when you would prefer to actually sit down
and enjoy a cuppa first; children are exactly the same. When a child comes home
from school, they may be tired so try not to fire too many questions the moment
they get in. Be available to listen, engage and support them but at a pace that
isn’t intense and strict.
Ultimately we know that Parents, Families and Carers are
some of the most important influences on a child’s education. When you are
positively engaged in your child’s education, your attitudes, values and
behaviours can positively influence your child’s education outcomes.
Do you have any suggestions on engaging and supporting your
child’s education? Would love to hear them!Update! This post was shared through the Dad Network on 06/4/15 with my permission as a writer and contributor. However, this post was written my myself.
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